Partnering with Influencers to Eradicate Gender-based Violence.


Afterall, it is 2024.

I support lawyers* to be highly efficient, strategic and successful so that Sexual Misconduct ends in our lifetime.

*DA’s, Legislators, Title VII and IX Investigators, Advocates, and Employment Lawyers (representing the Plaintiff)

Does
your impact
match
your
vision?

I partner with anyone who’s on a mission to end Sexual Misconduct in our lifetime.

this means DA’s and ADA’s, Legislators, Title VII and IX Investigators, Advocates, Employment Lawyers (representing the Plaintiff), law students, survivors, and anyone else who shares this vision .

Is this you?

You are extraordinary, with a brilliant vision and a plan to take us there.

You are a super hard worker, often starting to feel a little burnt out after giving little energy to your personal lives because you’re so dedicated to making the changes we need in this world.

Still something is missing.

You’re aware that your impact is not 100% in alignment with your vision. But who do you call for this?

If this is you, I might be your partner. With extreme confidentiality (due to who I work with), I help people match their impact to their vision.

How does this happen? By daring yourself to BE. MORE. YOU. How do you dare yourself to BE. EVEN. MORE. OF. YOU.? 

Text/call (760-419-8188) and ask any question. Or we can chat to see if we’re the right fit to make this happen. (Because if you knew how to do this on your own, you would already be there.) 

Welcome

"Just Watch Me"

Hi, I’m Becky and as far back as I can remember, my goal was to “change the fabric of society.”

In 4th grade, I refused to say the pledge of allegiance. I felt disingenuous standing with my hand on my heart. 

How could I claim “with liberty and justice for all” when I knew that our country was not fulfilling that promise for all people? 

At age 10, a babysitter told me that I would grow up and forget my desire to make a difference in the world. Annoyed, I retorted with, “Just watch me.”

This Is Why

We Are the Ones We Have Been Waiting For

I’m a survivor. I didn’t share my own story until 2 years ago; 44 years after it happened. 

I dared myself to share this while feeling shame and wondering how speaking my story out loud mattered.

And then, all sorts of things happened. 

My life’s work crystalized and expanded from helping any business owner make changes so the company could love Monday Mornings…

  • –> to being particularly passionate about working with people who share a vision of changing the broken laws regarding sexual misconduct, and 
  • –> to partnering with people who want to their impact to match their vision.

"Just Watch Me"

Hi, I’m Becky and as far back as I can remember, my goal was to “change the fabric of society.”

In 4th grade, I refused to say the pledge of allegiance. I felt disingenuous standing with my hand on my heart.

How could I claim “with liberty and justice for all” when I knew that our country was not fulfilling that promise for all people?

At age 10, a babysitter told me that I would grow up and forget my desire to make a difference in the world. Annoyed, I retorted with, “Just watch me.”

more peeps can finally say I defined and met my strategic goals

"I don't quite exactly know how it happened. Becky isn't a drill instructor, and most of what we did didn't feel like work. Somehow, though, I found myself attaining all of the goals and tasks I identified with her--in some cases, things I'd meant to do for years."
Kirsten Marcum, Division Manger
Compliance Company, CO
"I again consulted with Becky because I felt “Panicked” in the present economy that my (law) practice would dry up despite that fact that business was still good for me. Becky again posed provocative questions, questions that caused me to make choices based on my own values, not outside expectations."
Anonymous Lawyer, principal
Solo practice, Springfield, MA
"I’ve never felt more organized, focused or productive in a new venture. Becky pushes me to expand my marketing thoughts and business possibilities. She is intuitive, resourceful and has a keen sense for business development."
Mary van dorn, Entrepreneur
Teen Safety OnLine, San Diego CA
"My progress encourages moments of reflective thinking where I ask myself, "How did I ever manage without a coach?" She's a friend, confident and always in my court. Who would have thought change could be so rewarding... She's a delight!"
Maria Kyriakos, senior vp
Signa Health Insurance, Hartford, CT

my ultimate vision

In my lifetime, I want to see a just world where sexual misconduct is a thing of the past. And I have some ideas of how to make this happen.

Things are changing, but not fast enough. I am on a mission to find out what’s needed to get sexual misconduct on the national agenda.

              What’s needed to create the tipping point?

As a survivor, I am talking with attorneys in the field plus other survivors, to see if a consortium, or something else, would be a valuable asset. 

Do we share a similar vision together? 

If you are willing give your opinion in this pursuit, please reach out @ Becky@ILoveMondayMornings.com or 760-419-8188 (text/chat — my ringer is kept off, you will not wake me up.)  

Alternatively, you can take a less than 5 minute survey to offer your input. Many thanks.

my vision

In my lifetime, I want to see a just world where sexual misconduct is a thing of the past. And I have some ideas of how to make this happen.

Things are changing, but not fast enough. Sexual misconduct is still not on the national agenda. I’m on a mission to find out:

              What else is needed to create the tipping point?

As a survivor, I am talking with attorneys in the field plus other survivors, to see if a consortium, or something else, would be a valuable asset. 

If you are willing give your opinion of what is needed, please contact me to text or chat @ Becky@ILoveMondayMornings.com or 760-419-8188. (My ringer is kept off, you will not wake me up.)  

You can also take a less than 5 minute survey to offer your input: 

who i am

I am the proud single mom to two incredible grown adults; I happily found my true love at age 56; and I live on a small farm in North Eastern America. I love to travel, garden and dance.

my wish

MY WISH IS FOR ALL PEOPLE TO WORK AND RUN BUSINESSES THEY ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT, TO TRULY BE ABLE TO SAY:

               I LOVE MONDAY MORNINGS 

IF YOU CAN’T SAY, I LOVE MONDAY MORNINGS, IT’S TIME TO DARE YOURSELF TO:

---> Be. More. You.

who i'm qualified to work with

I adore working with anyone who wants to love Monday Mornings. As a survivor, I am particularly passionate about working with lawyers who are fighting to end sexual misconduct. You could be a DA, Advocate, Legislator, Title VII or IX Investigator, or anyone working to end these archaic laws and this unacceptable behavior

what is ILMM?

ILMM = ILoveMondayMornings.com
As I conduct this survey to see what is needed to create the tipping point (see ‘my vision’), I continue to offer practice management and business development services to lawyers to streamline their practices.

  • I am an expert at facilitating highly efficient and profitable law practices (or businesses) PLUS
  • I am able to ensure free evenings for attorneys and business owners so you can do what is meaningful in your life.
  • There is no reason to burn yourself out working 24/7 or to be unhappy.


what i know for sure

ILMM believes we are all here to do good in the world, once we find our passion, accept our ‘weaknesses,’ and give ourselves full permission to step up to the PLATE to fully be ourselves.

You obtain that by daring yourself to Be. More. You. By uncovering what makes you love Monday mornings. BY BEING YOUR VISION. 100%.

                         That is how you make your impact match your vision!

You will know you have arrived when you wake up and joyfully get out of bed. It’s when you feel alive, purposeful and determined, without self-judgement. You will feel pretty fearless, or scared, but you will do ‘it’ anyway. You will feel Energized & Engaged with Life!!!

                         And this will change the fabric of society, with true liberty and justice for all.